How To Deal With Bullying In School

Written by Dan

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Schools are a microcosm of society; unfortunately, they can be breeding grounds for bullying. No teacher wants to see their students bullied, but dealing with it can be tricky. This article will explore some effective strategies for handling bullying in the classroom.

Related: For more, check out our article on How To Support Challenging Behaviour  here.

What Is Bullying?

Bullying can be difficult to define, but at its core, it is the repeated use of power or strength over another individual. It often takes the form of physical or verbal aggression, as well as social exclusion.

Its effects on a victim can include distress, helplessness, and depression; long-term mental health issues such as anxiety and low self-esteem are also not uncommon.

Conversely, bullying can impact the perpetrator in negative ways. It can lead to criminal charges or legal consequences and damage their reputation amongst peers and adults, ultimately leading to relationship difficulties and emotional health problems.


Creating a safe and supportive classroom environment is vital for any teacher dealing with bullying. Students should feel comfortable talking to their teachers about their experiences and know they will be heard, respected, and taken seriously.

Whenever a student opens up about any bullying-related issues, the teacher needs to remain calm, show empathy, and employ active listening skills.

Doing so allows teachers to understand better how the student is feeling and how best the situation can be addressed to keep everyone safe.

These two steps – creating a safe and supportive environment and responding compassionately when students come forward – are critical in successfully navigating bullying situations in school.

Addressing Bullying Behaviour

Bullying in schools is a serious issue that affects students’ physical and mental well-being, which is why it is so vital for teachers to intervene when they see any bullying—taking proactive steps towards addressing bullying behaviour as soon as it is observed can be much more effective than simply waiting for a student to come to you with their problem.

By actively monitoring their classrooms and intervening when necessary, teachers can work to create a safe and supportive learning environment for all students rather than leaving the bully unchecked or brushing off the situation until someone reports it.

Teach About Empathy

Teaching students empathy and respect is one of the most powerful tools we can use as teachers to prevent bullying. When educating our students, starting early is essential, emphasising the importance of understanding and showing compassion for those around us.

By teaching them how to recognise when someone is feeling down or excluded, our students can quickly step in, responding with a kind remark or act that can brighten their classmate’s day.

Teaching kids about respect and empathy will arm them with the skills necessary to be agents of positivity in their classrooms and school hallways, helping create an open environment where people feel accepted and safe from being bullied.

Offer Resources and Support

Supporting the victims of bullying is instrumental in creating an environment free from fear and hatred. Teachers can offer several ways to make those victimised feel safe, secure and respected in their school.

From ensuring access to well-trained staff and responsible adults to providing resources and advice inside and outside the school, we can give the victims increased security and trust.

Empathetic listening is also an excellent way for teachers to show support, as it allows those affected by bullying to open up about their experiences in a comfortable setting.

By envisaging proactive solutions and offering help whenever possible, teachers can make decisive steps towards protecting students from mistreatment or discouragement in the classroom.

Work With Parents

Teachers must work closely with fellow educators and school administrators to develop a comprehensive plan to prevent or reduce bullying incidents. Additionally, teachers must collaborate with the victims’ parents and bullies to ensure that all involved receive the appropriate guidance and resources.

Ultimately, such collaboration will ensure that anyone affected by bullying has the support they need, creating a safe learning environment where all students can succeed.

Encourage Feedback

Creating an environment where students feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings is essential. Encouraging feedback from both victims and perpetrators is often a great way to find out what’s happening in the school – which can be invaluable when addressing bullying issues.

If possible, teachers should hold regular meetings with the students, allowing them to express their concerns in a safe and supportive environment.

This will not only provide an opportunity for teachers to get insight into what’s happening in their classrooms, but it will also be a great way of letting students know that they are being heard and that their opinions truly matter.

Be Firm and Consistent

If the bullying has occurred, teachers need to respond quickly and severely to deter any potential further behaviour. This means making sure that students know what the consequences of their actions should be if they bully another student – whether it be expulsion or disciplinary action.

It is also essential to be consistent in your responses, as this will demonstrate that no matter who the perpetrator is, bullying will not be tolerated in any form.

Lastly, teachers must keep an open line of communication with all involved so they can express any concerns and ensure that everyone feels safe, respected and secure in the school environment.

Do Not Ignore It

Finally, teachers must never ignore incidents of bullying. Not only does this send a message that these behaviours are acceptable, but it can also be dangerous for the victims, as ignoring an issue can lead to serious long-term consequences.

Teachers must take bullying incidents seriously and address them promptly with both perpetrators and victims. Doing so will help ensure a safe and supportive learning environment while providing victims with the support and resources they need to recover.

Bullying is a severe problem in schools that can have long-lasting effects on both the victim and the perpetrator. As a teacher, you play an essential role in preventing bullying from happening in your classroom and school.

By being proactive, teaching empathy and respect, and offering support to victims of bullying, you can make a difference in the lives of your students.

Work with other teachers, administrators, and parents to create a comprehensive plan for dealing with bullies and their victims so that everyone knows what to do if someone is being bullied with your handout and an end to bullying in our schools.


How should parents deal with bullying?

Parents should take a proactive approach to bully by talking with their children about the issue, monitoring their behaviour, and teaching them how to recognise and respond to cases of bullying. If necessary, they should also reach out to the school for guidance or resources.

Additionally, parents can report the incident to the appropriate authorities and help create a safe environment where victims of bullying can feel comfortable coming forward.

What should teaching assistants do when they witness bullying?

Teaching assistants should intervene when they witness bullying, regardless of whether it occurs in their classroom or elsewhere on school grounds. They can also refer to the school’s anti-bullying policies for guidance if necessary.

Additionally, teaching assistants must document all bullying incidents and report them to the appropriate adults.

About The Author

I'm Dan Higgins, one of the faces behind The Teaching Couple. With 15 years in the education sector and a decade as a teacher, I've witnessed the highs and lows of school life. Over the years, my passion for supporting fellow teachers and making school more bearable has grown. The Teaching Couple is my platform to share strategies, tips, and insights from my journey. Together, we can shape a better school experience for all.






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